Most people make partner choices based on looks, but spending time with someone who appreciates the real you is far more rewarding. Using our two-stage matching process, friendship will be the core of your relationship!

From personal experience, and from the research of many respected psychologists, I’ve found being focused on the looks of a potential partner is the wrong approach. Yet whether you go to a bar, or use a dating app, this is the approach you are likely to be using.